Chinese Banquet Seating for a Wedding — How Many Tables & Who Sits Where
The Chinese banquet is the heart of a Thai-Chinese evening reception, but the questions that stress hosts are "how many tables?" and "who sits where?" Get it wrong and the night turns chaotic. This guide covers sizing the tables and laying out the seating so it works for elders and friends alike.
How many Chinese banquet tables?
The standard is 10 seats per table. The simple method: divide the confirmed guest count by 10, then keep 1–2 spare tables.
| Guests attending | Tables (10/table) | + spare |
|---|---|---|
| ~100 | 10 | 11–12 |
| ~150 | 15 | 16–17 |
| ~200 | 20 | 21–22 |
| ~300 | 30 | 31–32 |
Order tables from the actual RSVP count, not the number invited — 100 invited rarely all attend, but some groups bring extra family. A spare buffer is safer, and most venues charge only for tables actually opened.
Seating principles (who sits where)
The goal is to seat everyone with a group they can talk to, while honouring the elders by custom.
- Elders / VIP table — parents, grandparents and senior relatives from both sides, placed near the stage or front, clearly seeing the ceremony, easy access
- Group by relationship — bride's relatives / groom's relatives / bride's friends / groom's friends / colleagues, split by who knows each other
- Close friends near the stage/dance floor for a lively atmosphere
- Families with young children / elderly near exits and restrooms
- Avoid seating people who don't get along together — the hosts know best
Tips from real receptions
- Make a clear seating chart + table number signs, with staff to guide guests
- Give the reception team a name-to-table list for guests who forget
- Reserve the elders' table so no one slips in
- Include seats for your team, photographer and MC
- Update the chart every time the RSVP count changes — don't lock too early
It starts with an accurate guest count
A good seating chart starts with an accurate count — the more you know who's coming, with whom, and how many, the easier it is. So close RSVPs and confirm the count before finalising (see the one-month stage in the Thai Wedding Checklist).
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Summary
Chinese banquet tables are 10 seats each — divide your guest count by ten and keep 1–2 spare. For the chart, honour the elders (front tables near the stage) and group by relationship. Above all, start from an accurate RSVP count and the reception flows from the moment guests walk in.
Frequently asked questions
How many people sit at a Chinese banquet table?
The standard is 10 seats per table. Some venues stretch to 11 or 12 but it gets tight, so calculate the number of tables by dividing your guest count by ten.
Should we order spare tables?
Always keep 1 to 2 spare tables in case guests exceed the confirmed count or arrive as larger families. Most venues charge for the tables actually opened.
Where should the elders' table go?
Near the stage or at the front where the ceremony is clearly visible and the restroom is convenient, as it's the most honoured table — usually parents, grandparents and senior relatives from both sides.
When should we do the seating chart?
You can draft it 2 to 3 months out, but finalise it after RSVPs close and you know the real count, since the number of seats changes with who confirms.
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